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!!!!! READ MY BIO !!!!!
Last Updated: December 6, 2024
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When Messaging Me:
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DO:
• Be respectful
• Put in effort, as I will
• Ask consent for anything
• Respect boundaries
• Read my whole profile first
• Be willing to take things slow
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DO NOT:
• Use pet names without consent
• Send me explicit images
• Send me explicit messages
• Try to demand submission
• Ask to move off the site right away
• Ask to meet up right away
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LOOKING FOR:
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You can call me Izzy, though it is a nickname/online alias rather than my real name. I'd prefer if you didn't use pet names for me... Consent is sexy so ask first, and respect my answer whatever that may be.
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Originally I wanted a Long Term (lifelong) relationship/dynamic with someone, but due to some life happenings, I am not actively seeking a romantic relationship anymore.
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I am OPEN to LTR still! And would love to find it! However, I am now seeking a platonic/non-romantic dynamic.
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This dynamic would not be exclusive. We can continue to see others. And either of us can end it at any time for any reason. (Though communication would be important still for safety and comfort.)
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The dynamic would focus on nonsexual aspects of BDSM, and start nonsexual. Depending on how much time passes and how close we are, I would be willing to make it sexual at a later time.
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I am someone who properly vets her Dom/me, always. So if moving slowly, even for non-romantic lifestyle dynamics aren't your thing... We won't work.
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Trust, communication, respect, consent, honesty, education.
These are PARAMOUNT.
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The dynamic would be based on mutual need, emotionally and mentally. And if we come to trust, it would be physically mutual, too.
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I am pansexual (NOT BI), and I am relatively fluid in that sometimes I have no preference, sometimes I have a masc lean, femme lean, woman lean, man lean, etc.
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Right now I have been heavily leaning towards femme women OR femme individuals with a fem body.
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But I am open to any and all genders as long as you are an educated and respectable Dominant! Read that sentence again, too, because I don't put up with toxic behavior.
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I am a lifestyle submissive and have been officially for almost 9 years, both sexually and nonsexually.
I've tried domming, multiple times, and I hate it. So don't ask me to switch. I refuse, it's a hard limit.
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Additionally, I am a bottom. I can occasionally vers (like for riding purposes) but 98% of the time prefer bottoming. (And for those not educated... sub and bottom aren't the same and neither is dom and top. Which is why I am specifying I am both sub AND bottom.)
Also an aspiring pillow princess 👸🏼
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I am also a pup. Both in BDSM pet play and non-kink pet regression. It's like my whole personality ngl.
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I am a pretty big masochist so if it were to ever go sexual, you'd have to be okay with providing some level of *** for me, or we won't be compatible in bed.
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And many more. Specific kinks can be discussed another time and my profile should always be up to date! (bdsmtest results also at bottom of my bio here)
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ABOUT ME:
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I am 25, soon to be 26. I live in the northern Indiana area.
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I am a BBW and my BMI is still considered "obese" so fair warning! If you're not into bigger women, don't bother.
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I am on a self love and weightloss journey and have already lost OVER 100lbs and am still going. I recently had bariatric surgery, too. I also have a lot more confidence now and know my worth.
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I am otherwise healthy and only struggle with OSA & Chronic Migraines, both of which are treated and generally under control. (I am 420 friendly and although currently abstaining around that surgery time, I use as well! So 420 users welcome!)
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Something very important is that I am CHILDFREE for life by choice. I am capable, but I do not have nor do I ever want kids. I'd like to be sterilized some day, and would prefer a romantic/long-term partner to also be childfree. So if interested in LTR, keep that in mind. For the dynamic... I don't care if you want kids some day as long as you take proper precautions with me if we get sexual, and you do NOT currently have ***. Don't want deal with it when we are trying to plan stuff honestly!
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Though pets are fine, I'm a dog mom myself and he's definitely my fur baby!! He's my sweetest boy!
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I am very passionate about and a big advocate for mental health and do struggle with a number of them. I both take meds and attend therapy and most are in remission and well handled. I also have agere and petre as coping mechanisms, so honestly I'm in a good place overall. (My diagnoses include: MDD, GAD, BPD, ADHD, OCD, C-PTSD)
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I have a social media addiction and am a FB micro influencer haha. Feel free to ask. I also have tons of nerdy interests: video games (sometimes I stream), anime, Japanese and Korean TV, reading, and writing.
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Reading includes pretty much any medium: novels, novellas, short stories, poetry, manhwa/manhua/webtoons, and manga.
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I write short stories and am working on my first book! My freelance I started also focuses on writing related work, though does branch out on occasion.
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I also recently started solo 🌶️ work so feel free to ask if you're interested. Content is a little limited rn for a few reasons but it's available if you wanna see... More. (Likely just temporary though, but not sure how long yet.)
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I think that covers it?
If I think of anything else I will edit.
This is always kept up to date per the date at the top of the profile bio.
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BDSMtest Results:
(Please remember that tests and quizzes online aren't always 100% accurate or all encompassing. It just provides a good starting baseline.)
(*Note: Also I am not really into ddlg as a kink. Agere and DDLG may have similarities but they are different things. So the "Little" and "Age Play" in these results aren't entirely accurate.)
Test results last updated: December 2, 2024
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
100% Brat
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Primal (Prey)
100% Rope bunny
100% Submissive
99% Pet
94% Little
77% Ageplayer
76% Slave
71% Non-monogamist
63% Exhibitionist
61% Experimentalist
57% Voyeur
13% Primal (Hunter)
7% Vanilla
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Dominant
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Sadist
0% Switch
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